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Delphine Horvilleur

Living with Our Dead

Cover: Living with Our Dead - Delphine Horvilleur

Delphine Horvilleur

Living with Our Dead

2024, pp. 144, Paperback
ISBN: 9781787704275
Translated by: Lisa Appignanesi
Region: France
Book collection: Europa Compass
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£ 12.99
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The book

WINNER OF THE 2021 BABELIO NON-FICTION PRIZE and the PRIX DES SAVOIRS 2021

"A radiant book that, without sentimentality, invites us to celebrate life."
-Le Monde

"A hymn to the healing power of storytelling and the written word."
-Le Figaro

"Delightful and moving... Delphine Horvilleur finds the right words to describe our time and its ghosts."
-ELLE (France)

In this moving and engaging book by one of France’s few female rabbis and leader of the country’s Liberal Jewish Movement, Delphine Horvilleur recounts eleven stories of loss, mourning, and consolation, collected during years spent caring for the dying and their loved ones.

From Charlie Hebdo columnist Elsa Cayat, to Simone Veil and Marceline Loridan, “the girls of Birkenau”; from Yitzhak Rabin, to Myriam, a New Yorker obsessed with planning her own funeral, to the author friend’s Ariane and her struggle with terminal illness, Horvilleur writes about death with intelligence, humour, and compassion. Rejecting the contemporary tendency to banish death from our thoughts, she encourages us to embrace its presence as a fundamental part of life. 

Drawing from the Jewish tradition, Living with Our Dead is a profoundly humanist, universal, and hopeful book that celebrates life, love, memory and the power of storytelling to inspire and sustain us.

The author

Delphine Horvilleur
Delphine Horvilleur was ordained in America, as there was no possibility to study in France as a woman, and is the leader of the Liberal Jewish Movement of France. Her writings have appeared in the Washington Post and Haaretz. She lives in Paris.

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